5 Things You Should Be Saying To Your Partner In An Argument
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1.What do you need from me right now?
An argument comes up when one of you feels like their needs aren’t being met.
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If you take time and ask them to state what they would want it opens a channel of communication for them to say what they feel would make the situation better.
2.I’m sorry
Apologize.Take the high road and accept that you made a mistake instead of dragging the issue in a fit of seeing who will win the argument.Acknowledge your shortcomings.
3.I’m proud of you
Assure your partner that you still see them as the person you fell in love with. Or even a better person.Appreciate the things that he has been doing to you and for you.
4.I love you
This is rule number one. Always make sure that the other person knows that you still adore them and would do anything for them.
5.We will get through this
Hold your partners hand and tell them how you’ll stand by them and how you’ll both get through whatever rough patch you are in.This goes a long way.
This is a totally effective hack for any relationship. All you need is communication and you never know, you might be banging all your frustrations away the next minute.(Wink)
~madamenoire
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