A look into most of the relationships we see around, particularly in this side of the world, will show that it is the normal thing and regular occurrence to see a man being older than his partner, than seeing the reverse being the case.
Over time, it has become accepted as the norm, the expected thing and even a criterion for the man to be older than his partner and this is not to say that there is nothing wrong with all of that. The point being made here is that just as it is OK for the man to be older than the woman in a relationship or marriage, so is it OK for the woman to be older than the man.
Prince Charles is younger than Meghan Markle by three years [Credit - Instagram]
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. The fact that it is uncommon does not make it wrong, neither is it an anti-social thing to do. So that thought needs to first be cleared. Dating an older woman is nice and fine, provided that all other things that need to be checked in a relationship are checked and all boxes required are ticked.
In case you are still doubting that, these 5 reasons will convince you otherwise.
1. A different perspective
If you’re used to dating younger women or women your age then dating women a few years older than you gives you a fantastic opportunity to grow and experience relationships in a different light. Relationships teach us a lot about ourselves so by dating a wide variety of women you open yourself up to learn more about who you are.
The fact that these older women are likely more mature in their outlook to love and life also gives you something different from what you are used to with women who are younger or the same age as you.
There really is nothing bad in dating an older woman [Credit - CloneAz]
2. Sex bangs different with them
Sex is something you can improve on with experience and you can bet that experience is something that women like this will likely have in abundance.
Sex isn’t just about sex. It’s also about the waiting periods in between, the tension and buildup it causes, and what you learn about yourself as your sexuality intensifies.
Women in their mid-30’s and older can reliably be said to have likely seen more, done more, and get in tune with sex and their sexuality than women that are, say, 10 years younger.
3. You actually grow when you date women like these
As Men’s website, MenSxp, accurately puts it “if you're dating someone younger or your age, you grow together, share the same perspectives and have the same or limited understanding of each other. But an older woman brings a fresher and newer perspective to your life and helps you grow with her experience, her wisdom and her ability to understand a lot more.
“You will learn more, grow emotionally as a person and look at life differently, if you're dating someone older.”
They know what they want and arre not scared to go after it [Credit - Shutterstock]
4. Independent
Regardless of their romantic relationships, older women often have a more robust network of friends and activities that they’re tied to. A partner will be part of their life without consuming it.
She’ll want you, but she won’t need you. And anyone who has ever been in a relationship knows the importance of not losing yourself in the other person.
5. They are sexier
Apparently, there is something sexy about older woman and it goes beyond their bodies and physique. That, too, could be part of the deal as there is nothing saying that women of 35 and above can’t have banging bodies to die for.
But overall, it’s probably just got to do with the idea that they are more knowledgeable, more confident and in tune with life. The whole idea of them having come into their own must be why they have that thrill, that edge and vibe about them that is utterly sexy and makes younger guys just swoon and get giddy and dizzy with excitement.
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